--- title: "People Are Going on Dates in the Metaverse and It Sounds Very Strange" description: "Meet me in the metaverse. Virtual reality dating is here, and as The New York Times reports, it's growing — and frankly, it sounds, uh, super weird." date: "2022-08-21" modified: "2022-08-21" authors: - name: "Maggie Harrison Dupré" job_title: "Senior Staff Writer" link: "https://futurism.com/authors/mharrison" url: "https://futurism.com/the-byte/dating-metaverse" categories: - "Future Society" - "Metaverse" - "Virtual Reality" tags: - "dating" - "metaverse" - "the digest" - "virtual reality" --- # People Are Going on Dates in the Metaverse and It Sounds Very Strange ![Meet me in the metaverse. Virtual reality dating is here, and as The New York Times reports, it's growing — and frankly, it sounds, uh, super weird.]() *\Image: Flirtual\* ## Lonely VRts Wear a mushroom suit, meet a rabbit, hang out and talk amid a post-apocalyptic wasteland or sub-ocean lair. Or maybe just sit at a regular ol' bar. Virtual reality-powered metaverse dating is here and it's growing, as Madeleine Aggeler [writes for *The New York Times*]() — and frankly, it sounds, uh, super weird. "We intend to change the dating market," Cam Mullen, CEO of a recently-launched VR dating service called Nevermet, told the *NYT*, "where physical attraction will become one of several factors rather than the primary way people connect." Nevermet is one of several up-and-coming VR dating services, which, like Tinder or Hinge, works to match users in digital spaces. But Nevermet takes digital dating a few steps further. Unlike Hinge's motto — "[designed to be deleted]()" — suggests of the classic phone apps, Nevermet has faith in a future where entire relationships will be lived in headsets. "One day virtual reality will be so immersive," Mullen's comments continued, "that more and more relationships will flourish online." ## Nevermet, Neverwill The benefits of these spaces seems somewhat unclear at present. On one hand, as the *NYT* reports, they can be havens for those who want a safe place to explore their sexual identities; Mullen told the publication that taking virtual forms can allow users to "feel like their best self." Others, however, say these spaces [aren't always so welcoming](). "It's cliquey," Stonie Blue, a 23-year-old VR dater, told the *NYT*. "It's like high school drama but from people who are very much out of high school." Besides Nevermet, other services on the VR dating scene include an app called Flirtual, Second Life's Lonely Hearts Dating Agency, and — *[maybe]()* — Single Town, a virtual dating space built by Match Group, the corporation behind the dating apps Match, OkCupid, Tinder and Hinge. On that note, it's worth noting that modern love lives are already heavily integrated with digital spaces, whether they're dating-specific apps or social media platforms. Still, the general belief is still that if you meet someone online, you'll one day make your way offline, which isn't necessarily the goal of these VR services — and the jury's still out on whether anybody wants that. **READ MORE:** [*Looking for Love in the Metaverse*]() \[*The New York Times*\] **More on virtual reality:** [*VR Company Shows off Full-body Suit That Electrocutes You Everywhere*]() ## Author At Futurism, I've reported extensively on the rise of AI as a cultural and business force shaping the media industry, and more broadly how those dynamics are changing how we all consume and share information and relate to one another. I'm also fascinated by public health policy and ethics, the role of emerging tech in politics and governance — and the powerful people and forces at those intersections — climate change, and the environment. My investigation on Sports Illustrated's use of AI-generated authors with fictional biographies won a 2024 Mirror Award for "Best Story on Media Coverage of Artificial Intelligence in Journalism and the Media" from Syracuse University's SI Newhouse School, I contributed to Niemen Lab's 2025 Predictions for Journalism series, and I've discussed my work for Futurism during appearances on NPR, CNN, the BBC, the CBC, and more. I grew up in rural Pennsylvania and attended the University of Massachusetts Amherst, where I played Division I field hockey for the Minutewomen as a midfielder. Since then, I've lived in New Orleans, Louisiana and Manhattan, New York. I spend my free time running, reading, perusing archival fashion, and searching for the world’s best negroni. I also have a debonair tuxedo cat, Westley, who's named after "The Princess Bride." ### Author social links [Bluesky]()